Psychology of Love By Mohammad Alshereda

The 4-letter word has been one of the biggest mysteries to man even to this day. Biology tells us that love is a chemical reaction which happens inside of the body but that doesn't provide an answer for the philosophical aspect of it. Being in love is the most amazing feeling you can ever experience and it changes a lot of things about you. You start to love life and become more positive but your idea about happiness narrows down to just being with your loved one.

Love - as great as it is - has a big impact on rational thinking so one can make decisions that are less logical and more emotional. People can make huge sacrifices in the name of love that they would never make if they were not in love. The saying:"love is blind" means it blinds us from seeing the bad things about our loved one.

Some people will use love against you to take advantage of you so it is wise to see a psychologist once you fall in love because he/she would have a more logical judgement on the behavior of your loved one and their intentions.

Love is great but it cannot be the sole fundamental basis for a serious relationship or marriage as those kind of commitments require much more compatibility and your zodiac signs are irrelevant at least from the stand point of psychology.

If you want to decide whether or not you can spend your life with someone, you need to look at:

- Whether they are introverts or extroverts.

- Their relationship with their family.

- Their values.

- Their way of thinking.

- Their habits and behavior.

- Their financial stability.

- How they treat other people in social situations.

If all of those points are ok with you, love can be an extra as it increases and decreases by time and experiences.

Remember: Don't create a fantasy of your perfect lover in your mind because that takes you far away from reality and can keep you single for the rest of your life. Only the ability to compromise can win you a partner.